Love

“Say you’re looking for financial security, for physical pleasures/sex, for someone to take care of you, for someone to cuddle with, to do fun things with, to vent your thoughts to and support you, to build a family with…but don’t say you’re looking for Love. Love exists even without all these things. Love is independent of any activity or individual. Love was always here and will always be. It is here right now. True Love is so much more than the pity state we’ve reduced its meaning to. Love is a vast, endless ocean.” (via Parth Savla @Vinit Talsania) – Paramahamsa Yogananda

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Love Quiz: A good Path to Self-Knowledge

A

Is anyone a little happier because I came along today?

Yes No

Did I leave any concrete evidence of my kindness, any sign of my love?

Yes No

Did I try to think of someone I know in a more positive light?

Yes No

Did I help someone to feel joy, to laugh, or at least, to smile?

Yes No

Have I attempted to remove a little of the rust that is corroding my relationships?

Yes No

Have I gone through the day without fretting over what I don’t have and celebrating the things I do have?

Yes No

Have I forgiven others for being less than perfect?

Yes No

Have I forgiven myself?

Yes No

Have I learned something new about life, living or love?

Yes No

Ref: http://www.buscaglia.com/thoughts.htm

Adapted from Dr. Buscaglia’s book
(1992, SLACK Incorporated)

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Silence

“Perhaps the most important thing we bring to another person is the silence in us, not the sort of silence that is filled with unspoken criticism or hard withdrawal. The sort of silence that is a place of refuge, of rest, of acceptance of someone as they are. We are all hungry for this other silence. It is hard to find. In its presence we can remember something beyond the moment, a strength on which to build a life. Silence is a place of great power and healing.”

- Rachel Naomi Remen

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Express Our Love

“Yesterday I found out that the lady who cooked food for our family in India had suddenly died. Life is so uncertain. My teachers taught us to give every meeting or interaction our full love and attention, for it could be the last time we meet that person in this life. It has taken us our whole life to get here, and this moment will never come again. Let us live with awareness, and not be afraid to express our love.” Nithya Shanti

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On Happiness / Free and Easy – A Spontaneous Vajra Song

by Venerable Lama Gendun Rinpoche.

Happiness cannot be found through great effort and willpower, but is already present, in open relaxation and letting go.

Don’t strain yourself,

there is nothing to do or undo.

Whatever momentarily arises

in the body-mind

Has no real importance at all,

has little reality whatsoever.

Why identify with,

And become attached to it,

Passing Judgement upon it and ourselves?

Far better to simply

let the entire game happen on its own,

springing up and falling back like waves

without changing or manipulating anything

and notice how everything

vanishes and reappears, magically,

Again and again, time without end.

Only our searching for happiness

prevents us from seeing it.

It’s like a vivid rainbow which you pursue

without ever catching,

or a dog chasing it’s own tail.

Although peace and happiness

do not exist as an actual thing or place,

it is always available

and accompanies you every instant.

Don’t believe in the reality

of good and bad experiences;

they are today’s ephemeral weather,

like rainbows in the sky.

Wanting to grasp the ungraspable,

you exhaust yourself in vain.

As soon as you open and relax

this tight fist of grasping,

infinite space is there -

open, inviting and comfortable.

Make use of this spaciousness, this

freedom and natural ease.

Don’t search any further

looking for the great awakened elephant,

who is already resting quietly at home

in front of your own hearth.

Nothing to do or undo,

nothing to force,

nothing to want,

And nothing missing.

Emaho! Marvelous!

Everything happens by itself.

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Anyway by Mother Teresa

“People are often unreasonable and self-centered. Forgive them anyway.

If you are kind, people may accuse you of ulterior motives. Be kind anyway.

If you are honest, people may cheat you. Be honest anyway.

If you find happiness, people may be jealous. Be happy anyway.

The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway.

Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough. Give your best anyway. For you see, in the end, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway.”

— Mother Teresa

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How is Sound Influencing Us

Did not know how powerfully and deeply sound affects us

“It’s obvious that our speech creates sound. Realize that our thoughts create sound as well. Vibration has a sound. There is nothing that exists in this physical reality, as well as non-physical realms, that does not have a vibration. And as it has it’s own unique and individual vibration so does it have its own unique and individual sound, audible or intangible to our own human sense of hearing.

Sound heals and sound destroys. This being stated, realize that there are qualities of ‘dis-ease’ that can be broken down to promote healing. Sound influences all that is. We are never separate from sound. Remember we are sound as well and each and every cell within our form carries its own sound…trillions of sounds. We are our own symphony of sounds creating our specific frequency vibration.”

http://www.soundsaffect.com/

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Perspective & Appreciation

One day, the father of a very wealthy family took his son on a trip to the country with the express purpose of showing him how poor people live.They spent a couple of days and nights on the farm of what would be considered a very poor family.

On their return from their trip, the father asked his son, “How was the trip?”

“It was great, Dad.”

“Did you see how poor people live?” the father asked.

“Oh yeah,” said the son.

“So, tell me, what did you learn from the trip?” asked the father.

The son answered:

“I saw that we have one dog and they had four.

We have a pool that reaches to the middle of our garden and they have a creek that has no end.

We have imported lanterns in our garden and they have the stars at night.

Our patio reaches to the front yard and they have the whole horizon.

We have a small piece of land to live on and they have fields that go beyond our sight.

We have servants who serve us, but they serve others.

We buy our food, but they grow theirs.

We have walls around our property to protect us, they have friends to protect them.”

The boy’s father was speechless.

Then his son added, “Thanks Dad for showing me how poor we are.”

Isn’t perspective a wonderful thing? Makes you wonder what would happen if we all gave thanks for everything we have, instead of worrying about what we don’t have.

Appreciate every single thing you have.

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Amazing quotes about Raising Vibrations

It’s easy for us to lose self confidence after many disappointments in love, we blame ourselves and others for the failures in each relationship, when really we are losing sight of what is really going on. Whether your relationship was for a moment, hour, months or years, people come to our lives so that we can learn a lesson, not so that we can spend our lives regretting or hating and wishing we …never love again.

When we develop love and confidence for ourselves, we eliminate the insecurities, the jealousy, the doubt, the need to cling and we become our own solid rock, we rely on ourselves and not others, we are strengthened by our own faith, and with this self independence we attract better relationships, we think more positively and in-turn the better energy we give comes right back our way, have FAITH, you deserve unconditional happiness just as much as me or anybody.

An energy or feelings you carry toward another person sits in your aura and acts as a magnet for more of the same. There is most definitely a reason for forgiveness, for it cleanses and heals you and changes for the better the circumstances you draw to yourself. ~ Orin By Sanaya Roman – Living With Joy

Give all the people in your life permission to be who they are. As you do, you increase your ability to love and accept yourself just as you are. As you accept and love yourself, you raise your vibration and attract more good into your life. Accept the things you can’t change, and look for the good in them. Orin through Sanaya Roman

‘I love and accept myself’ Keep saying this a few times a day (at least 30) and ‘see’ for yourself your energy shift….

Sometimes we tend to waste time questioning our God and ourselves about why things happen, it’s really not about why the Universe or God is allowing things to happen; some things are just as apart of living and life as the air in which we breathe, some things we do to ourselves, while other actions are a result of what we do to each other. Our God and the Universe are aware of every creature that falls to the ground, maybe the reason why it is not always prevented is because there are deep meaningful lessons to be learned from it; our responses and actions to what happens throughout out life is far more

Live.Believe. Inspire. x Some of the greatest thoughts are those that consist of joy and good intentions, some of your greatest words will be the ones that contain the deepest truth, the greatest feelings you will ever experience is when you open you heart to give and receive love. Giving all of ourselves openheartedly, compassionately and with no intentions of receiving in return, is never wasted no matter whom you have given it to, that person will forever be changed whether they admit it to themselves or not.

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Life Time of Love

Love that rises out of kinship it remains for life-times

Do you love someone, because they are great or unique? I tell you – you are hopeless! Why do you love someone? Is it because of their qualities or is it because of a sense of kinship or intimacy? You can love someone for their qualities and not feel a sense of kinship. This type of love gives rise to competition and jealousy. Such is not the case when love arises out of kinship. If you love someone for their qualities, then when the quality changes or you get used to the quality, love also changes. However, if you love someone out of kinship, because they belong to you, then that love remains for life-times. People say “I love God, because He is great”. This is no big thing. If God is found to be ordinary, just one of us, then your love for God collapses! If you love God, because He is yours, then however God is, whether He creates or destroys, you still love Him. The love for kinship is like the love for yourself. Question : Many people do not have love for themselves? Sri Sri Ravi Shankar: No! It is the other way around. They love themselves so much, that they want better qualities and better appearance for themselves. This love of qualities makes them be hard on one self. If love is based on the quality of a person, then the love is not stable – after sometime the qualities change and the love becomes shaky. Loving someone because of their greatness or uniqueness is Third-rate love. Loving someone because they belong to you, great or otherwise, is unconditional love. Knowledge, Sadhana, Seva and Satsang help to bring about a sense of belongingness in no time. When love springs forth from a sense of belongingness then the actions and qualities do not over shadow the love. Neither the qualities nor actions can be perfect all the time. Love and a feeling of kinship alone can be perfect.

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